10 reasons I think I get friend zoned after a first date
I think I am pretty awesome but I keep getting put into the friend category. I don't know why that is. I am guessing it's just dating but some people seem to understand it more than others.
I will just keep being me and see what happens😁
1. Maybe I dont look like my first picture
Maybe I don't always look like this. My hair is shorter and a little bit blonder. Maybe I gained 5 lbs. It's also my best angle.
2. I look too much like Elizabeth Moss
I get told this at least every fifth conversation on an app. But if I look so much like her and you don't find her attractive, why go out with me?
3. I bring up my interests in mystical things too soon
The dress is constellations 😁
I dont ask to read tarot cards for someone on the first date but I could and it would be spot on. I might bring up my interest on a side note but not the level of interest.
4. Im not showing the Ts and A.
I looked through all my photos I don't even have a photo that show it. I like to keep it classy. Am I showing them I'm not interested if I am not showing them?
5. Am I too interesting?
I am a really interesting person. I made it my goal to be the most interesting person I know. I want to meet more interesting people. I end up having amazing conversations with this guys that last hours. Are they intimidated by my awesomeness? Or am I ego trippin on my own intrestingness.
I am reading a Nixon Era book about previous presidents entertaining at the white house in this picture.
6. Am I not aggressive enough?
I dont feel the urge to get into big disagreements on a first date. If I don't agree with you I will state my reason. If they rebuttal I will say "huh,never thought about it like that" and change the subject. Am I suppose to be more aggressive in my stance?
7. Should I wait for them to ask me out?
I can tell in about 10 messages if I want to meet you. If you aren't asking me out. I go for it. I get a better idea of you in person.
Me waiting to be asked out...
8. Do they not want to travel the world?
I tell them very early on. I want to travel the world. Should I start saying.. I will be traveling the world. Maybe they are attracted to me but once they realize I am serious and can do it they get freaked out by the notion.
9. Are they upset I dont have a big furry doggy?
I love these photos of me with my sisters dog. Maybe it's false advertising. I like dogs but it's hard to travel the world with them. It's doable but it requires a wee more effort.
10. Am I just a little to quirky for most guys?
I am quirky. I don't do things by the rules. I want to get married, have babies and raise them around the world while I teach preschool. I know what I want. I am willing to compromise some things but my quirkiness, never!
Not a dating site photo. Just me being a preschool teacher on Wacky Wednesday.
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