10 Ways to Find your Christmas Spirit.

This is an extra chore every year and I dread it. But my wife really enjoys it. And to be honest, once everything is in place, I enjoy it too. I have to remind myself every year that it is worth doing. Because it is.

It is easy to go overboard on this one and end up with the opposite effect. But start sprinkling in an occasional Christmas favorite into your play list and see if it doesn't bring a little smile.

Fun, and practical, and you get treats!

How often do we find personal cards and letters in the mail anymore. Taking the time to pick out a card, jot down a little note, and mail it all adds to the enjoyment of the person receiving it. It is a personal touch in what can be a cold and impersonal time of year.

It was kindness that cured the Grinch. It can cure you too.

Enjoying time spent with family and friends is definitely in the Spirit of Christmas. If you're feeling really brave, host a gathering.

Do little crafts or projects for the holidays. They don't have to be much or be very good. You can even throw them away if you wish. But take the time and use your hands to create.

Like friends and family, but now include your neighbors and the community. Caroling, tree lighting, Wassail, are just some examples.

What is something you do that reminds you of the goodness of mankind? Maybe you did it as a kid? Maybe it was something you started when your kids were little. A special meal. Watching the same movie every year. Attending church. Whatever it is, make it a priority. Because it is.

It might be exactly what they need to hear.