develop attractive personality
a short self help list of items to develop attractive and powerful personal identity
1. Be honest
2. Don't be lazy
3. Don't be afraid of being judged
4. Surround yourself with good people and avoid the bad ones even if they are family
5. Sleep eight hours a day, eat well, exercise, and keep learning new things
6. Take care of your body as if it were the most beautiful temple in the world
7. Don't gossip or backbite or spread negativity around you
It shows discipline and self-control
8. Be loyal to those who are loyal to you even if it costs you something temporary in terms of money or opportunities for advancement or whatever else
If someone betrays your loyalty then cut them out of your life forever no matter who they are or what they have done for you in the past (this is not about family members)
9. Be generous with time and money to those who are less fortunate than you even if it means making sacrifices that hurt temporarily (this has nothing to do with charity which I think is often wasteful). Generosity is very attractive because
I've seen this happen over and over again in my own life when I was generous with others without expecting anything in return except perhaps some good karma that comes back later on down the road (and often much sooner than later). When I was younger I thought this was BS but now after decades of observing my own life as well as others' lives I can say that this happens over and over again although sometimes we don't see results for many years down the road (such as when we help a friend get a job 20 years ago but then suddenly find out that he/she just got promoted at work due to his/her contacts from 20 years ago). All of this takes faith but since it happens so often, eventually one takes notice of this phenomenon even though we can never fully understand why this happens other than through theories about karmic energy returning back into our lives when we do good deeds for others without expecting anything in return except perhaps some good karma that comes back later on down the road (and often much sooner than later). When I was younger I thought this was BS but now after decades of observing my own life as well as others' lives I can say that this happens over and over again although sometimes we don't see results for many years down the road (such as when we help a friend get a job 20 years ago but then suddenly find out that he/she just got promoted at work due to his/her contacts from 20 years ago). All of this takes faith but since it happens so often, eventually one takes notice of this phenomenon even though we can never fully understand why this happens other than through theories about karmic energy returning back into our lives when we do good deeds for others without expecting anything in return except perhaps some good karma that comes back later on down the road (and often much sooner than later). When I was younger I thought this was BS but now after decades of observing my own life as
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