How to become comfortable with Forgiveness and kindness?

Have you ever just tried to be yourself and receive so much hate for it?

Sometimes the same people you have been doing good for – the one day you question their request or say “No”– you become a threat.

It’s easy to march on people you think you’re superior to especially if they’re quiet or are under you.

This post would help you become comfortable with Forgiveness and kindness and still going 10x forward in life:

Learn to Heap burning Coals on their head

1. Change your perspective

Without the right perspective – being kind and expressing genuine love may seem like something you do only for the benefit of others.

In reality, when you do well to others – you’re also doing well for yourself.

Kindness is a virtue that can make the world a better place.

2. Forgive past hurts

No matter how much time and energy you spend discussing the pain others have caused you - the truth is you can’t go back in time and undo them.

Forgiving others can lead to inner peace and happiness.

In fact for me, such pain and hurt have led to deeper lessons and insights I wouldn’t have ever experienced if they never occurred.

3. Love people

Nothing wrong with giving less f*cks about some people and their dramas but if deep within you have no love for others – then the problem is not outside.

Look within and fix it:

Lead with Love and compassion.

4. Give

When you making giving a lifestyle – you realize it’s not just about saving other people from financial mess.

Give your time, attention and heart to those who deserve it. As Coaches, we don't just wait for to fail, but we help you set you up in a trajectory for success.

I’ve seen friends and family make the mistake of not approaching giving inside out.

Don't be an “Angel on the Road” – doing good outside just for recognition and starving those close to you of things as valuable as your time and resources.

5. Don’t change yourself for anybody

It’s easy for one to change due to negative experiences. But if you’ve decided to be someone and built a certain character…don’t allow anybody change you for bad.

Stay true to yourself, growth and personal development.

6. CONCLUSION

If you're struggling whether to pursue revenge or finally forgive someone and move on, reflect on this verse:

Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.” - Romans 12:20