"Love Isn’t a Lie— (3 min 17 sec)

We talk about love like it’s something we give or take, something that’s wrapped up in flowers and rings, but let’s be honest: half of what we call “love” is pure ego. It’s a transactional game, designed to get us what we think we’re missing. But love isn’t a bargaining chip.

Love isn’t conditional — if it’s got terms and conditions, it’s a business deal, not love.
Love isn’t attachment — clinging onto someone isn’t love, it’s fear dressed up as devotion.
Love isn’t special — love is universal. If you need to feel special to call it love, you’re missing the point.
Love isn’t fair-weathered — real love doesn’t pack its bags when the skies turn gray.
Love isn’t attack — you can’t stab someone in the back and call it love. That’s ego. That’s fear.
Love isn’t holding onto grievances — if you’re keeping score, you’re keeping chains, not love.
Love isn’t intimacy — let’s not confuse love with moments of connection. That’s an experience, not the essence of love.
Love isn’t sex — if you think you’re “making love,” all you’re making is an illusion.
Love isn’t about bodies — love has nothing to do with bodies, but everything to do with Spirit. The body is just a cover story.

Love isn’t sin — if you’re dragging guilt into the mix, you’ve missed the point entirely.
Love isn’t fear — if you’re scared to lose it, it wasn’t love to begin with.
Love isn’t guilt — you can’t shame someone into loving you. That’s control, not connection.
Love isn’t imprisonment — chains don’t belong in love’s house. If someone’s feeling trapped, that’s ego at work.
Love isn’t jealousy — if you’re guarding your territory, that’s fear again, not love.
Love isn’t criticism — you don’t “fix” someone you love. Love doesn’t see faults to fix.
Love isn’t script writing for another — You can’t manipulate or assign someone a role and call it love.
Love isn’t twin flames — let’s not romanticize separation and struggle. Love is unity, not two halves.
Love isn’t even soul mates — it’s beyond bodies, beyond special assignments. The soul is whole, with or without someone standing next to you.
Love isn’t about getting — if your aim is to receive, what you’re after isn’t love.
Love isn’t about anything external — love’s source is within. Looking outwards is a fool’s errand.
Love isn’t earned — you don’t work your way into love. It just is.
Love isn’t lost — you can’t misplace love. It’s not a set of keys.
Love isn’t found — it’s not something you go searching for like buried treasure.
Love isn’t fell into — you didn’t fall into it. Falling is for accidents. Love is deliberate, infinite.
Love isn’t falling out of — if you think you’ve fallen out of love, you were probably never in it. What you had was attachment, not love.

Love is not a transaction. It doesn’t show up with a price tag or an expiration date.

Love is eternal. Love is constant. Love is not negotiable. It’s the one thing that can’t be twisted, lost, or made into something it’s not. When you strip away all the ego’s lies, what remains? Love. Pure and simple.

Love is not the ego’s playground.

We think we know love, but most of what we believe about love is a lie. Love isn’t about getting; it’s about giving. Love has no agenda — it’s what’s left when the ego’s demands fall away. It’s that expansive space where nothing is missing, nothing is needed.

Love doesn’t need you. Love doesn’t care about your ego’s games or your special relationships. It’s there, waiting, when you’re ready to see that it’s been in you the whole time. But first, you’ve got to let go of what love is not. Then maybe — just maybe — you’ll catch a glimpse of what love is.

What if it’s something that was always there, waiting for you to wake up and recognize that love isn’t a trap — it’s your escape?

#thinkgod
I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
I love you.