1. Why winning won't save you?
The message you got as a kid — "Be number one, separate from the pack, and win" — is the perfect recipe for ego warfare. It's the mindset that says everything is a competition. And what's the cost? Relationships, peace, joy— gone. You become a slave to comparison, always needing to be better than someone else. And even if you win, it’s hollow. The ego doesn’t settle. It always asks, “What’s next? Who’s the next target?”
This mindset plays out like a broken record in your life — constantly looking for validation from outside, measuring your worth by your position on the ladder. And what are the pitfalls? Alienation, dissatisfaction, burnout. You can't win at this game because there’s always someone else to beat, and even when you're on top, you're terrified of losing it.
Can it ever work? No. Not in any way that matters. Sure, you might collect trophies and titles, but none of that touches your inner peace. True success isn’t about being better than others. It’s about being fully yourself — without competition, without comparison.
The truth is simple, but uncomfortable: Life isn’t a race, and you're not here to "win." You're here to remember who you are, which is way beyond this false sense of superiority. What's real can't be threatened. What's unreal is the trap you’ve been taught to chase.
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I am sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
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