What to Do When You are the Worst Gift-Giver

Use whatever excuse you want. Just don't partake in gift-giving. It is not mandatory. But please, if you are a recipient of a gift anyway, be gracious.

I know. But it does make it easier.

Put much more effort into finding (or writing) just the perfect card for each person. If you can pull this off, a more generic or less spectacular gift won't matter.

Maybe you're the person who makes everyone their favorite cookies every year. Or perhaps everyone knows that you will be providing a really interesting wine for Christmas dinner. Or you might be the one to make sure that everyone gets to the local theatre at least a couple times this year. Whatever it is, your friends and family come to look forward your gift each year, and you don't have to think about it as much

Be intentional, mindful, and positive about making yourself available. Maybe that means lending a hand on a project. It might mean just sitting together and watching a movie. Whatever it is. It is your gift. Make it count.

What defines you? What is something you are really good at? What is that others look to you for? Whatever it is, then give that to others. It might be a craft, a service, or a skill. It's from you and represents you. That makes it a good gift.

Most of have been there before. And there is no shame. When stumped for a gift, seek guidance from friends, co-workers, or family. Crowd source your gift giving.

Finding the perfect present is stressful enough. No need to add the extra pressure of a deadline.

Christmas presents are challenging for many. And for some of us, it is mighty daunting indeed. But just do your best. Give yourself the peace of mind knowing that you put true thought and effort into the process. Even if the end result may not reflect it.