@easymoneyme is considering moving to Colorado or North Carolina. I've lived in both, albeit a long time ago.
About 30 years ago, I lived for a year in Englewood, CO. About 20 years ago, I lived for a year in Durham, NC. I'm sure things have changed since then!
But here are my observations about each place, given what I know.

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1. If you're into outdoor sports, go to Colorado!
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The whole culture there seemed to be centered around outdoor sports. I'd go mountain biking or hiking every weekend. After school, the kids would all drop their backpacks and play football. Lots of runners and climbers.