How Do I Find Time for Things Other than my Day Job?
1. Some answers are in the book "The 7 habits of highly effective people" by Stephen Covey
I read this book in my native language. This is a perfect book. It teaches how to decide what is important and what is not in your life.
2. High skills is a priority
Probably you need a better job with a better life balance.
If you work for someone you can try to perform highly skilled and more complicated tasks, an employer usually understands who is doing what, and ultimately it affects your growth.
3. Start your business
No easy solution here. Know what you can and believe in yourself. Entrepreneurship might be the way to become free and successful.