Reasons to leave your significant other

1. You don't have any shared dreams or goals

2. They can't control themselves when they get triggered

3. They make explicit or implicit suggestions that you aren't enough or that something is wrong with you

4. They aren't fun to talk to

5. You can't trust them to be kind or compassionate when you have something big you are dealing with

6. They don't give your children the respect they deserve

7. They have never said that they are sorry

8. They become defensive and mean if you have an opinion that is different than theirs

9. They expect more than they give

10. You don't enjoy the one-on-one time you have together anymore