Words or Phrases Which Trigger Me1. RFP2. You're on mute3. Could we meet for 3 hours to discuss this? (Do we need to actually meet and why for so long?)4. I don't have time to do X. (just say you don't want to - everyone has time for things that are important to them.)5. Do you have 5 minutes?6. Great/good/bad weather we're having, eh?7. We have 1 minute left in this meeting but there's this really big, complex thing I need to discuss with you.8. How is your day going?9. Any update on X? ... or... Where are we at with X?10. What have you been up to?