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10 Precious Things I Can Give With No Expectation of Anything in Return

Years ago, in a story-telling course I took in college, the instructor asked the class a question that resonated so strongly with me that I continue to ponder it to this day.

Is it possible to do anything that is completely, 100% altruistic?

The class was divided on the answer, as you might expect. My 21-year-old bleeding liberal heart at the time thought, "Of course!"

After a couple of decades more of life experience, my response is now far more nuanced.

I can't say I know a definitive answer, yet in my heart of hearts, I don't think it's possible. However, I like to believe humans, somehow, in some way, are capable of it.

I don't know if I am personally capable of it, but if I were to take a stab at it, I would start with something from this simple list.

    1. My time.

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    To help someone when I have little to give.

    2. My attention.

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    For someone who feels lonely and scared.

    3. Heartfelt encouragement.

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    For someone who is passionately trying but keeps encountering hurdles.

    4. My Money.

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    When the value of it can change someone's day - or life - for the better.

    5. Great ideas.

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    When it can spark a change in someone's life.

    6. A truly kind, genuine smile.

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    We don't see them often, but when we do - we know.

    7. A solution.

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    For someone's seemingly intractable problem.

    8. Kudos/likes on social media.

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    When someone is clearly proud of an accomplishment yet is receiving no attention for it.

    9. A listening ear.

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    For someone who never feels heard.

    10. My full presence.

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    When being here, now, and nowhere else, will change someone's life.
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chantelle @chantelle
Interesting read!
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