10 things that would happen when I have got my life together

Identify the plus ,equals minus of getting these areas of my life sorted out

1. I hang around with people who make me feel good

+1 people that want the best for me and mentor me
=s I compete ,co-operate and grow with the people at my level
=1 I support, facilitate, mentor these people who are the start of their journey

2. I became a more rounded improviser

+1 I watch the best improvisers ,attend their workshops and take lessons
=s I rehearse perform more
-1 I tun lessons and host workshops

3. I have performed at the fringe

+1 I had a mentor and have taken direction
=s performed in a troupe and helped
-1 assisted and helped produce other shows

4. I raised my base emotional stoic level from 4 to a 7

+1 following mentors via Kindle (Ryan Holiday) Audible(David Goggins) and Webinars
=s performed in a troupe and helped
-1 be an example to other through empathy ,non judgement and listening

5. I am eating better and I am much healthier

+1 by researching and understanding the principles used by those I admire
=s I experiment and try out to see what works for me
-1 be an example through eating better not for validation

6. Our house is more functional and easier to live in

+1 Employ tradesmen to get jobs professionally done
=s I do the routine cleaning and clearing stuff away
-1 be an example through eating better not for validation

7. I walk five miles at pace without being out of breath

+1 listen to motivating books, podcasts seek out friends so that I raise my drive to walk regularly
=s take the dog for longer walks increase time and distance by 25%
-1 reduce resistance make it easier to go on regular walks by having my walking shoes coat by the door so I am ready to go

8. My family ties are stronger there is less friction and arguing in our family

+1 I am more vulnerable and listen more to my family
=s I am more cooperative and I have a flexible approach I dont have to win every discusion argue less
-1 Add value through engagement not control

9. I have much more energy

+1 I did the reach and found the mentors to bring this about
=s I do energy generating activities I do the difficult things that make me grow
-1 sense the drains on energy , reduce where I can or sandwich between energy generating activities

10. I am living my Values

+1 I actually worked out what my values are
=s my values drive my actions. Values are tools to live by not status symbols
-1 remove the habits and behaviours that do note serve my values