1. Dress like an authority figure (ex nice suit) for formal events or when you want to influence, & dress fashionable for informal events.
2. Subtly express empathy for those you're deal dealing with, find common ground, & ask open-ended questions that allow other people to express their feelings.
3. Leave your ego at the door & find creative ways to make other people feel good about themselves through smiles, genuine compliments and interest.
Humility + Power = Charisma
4. Watch the highest rated stand-up comedians that you can relate to. And study the pauses, jokes, tone, & timing that make the comedian capable of keeping a whole room entertained
5. Periodically lower your tone of voice to an almost whisper and people will subconsciously believe you're expressing an important secret.
6. Maintain eye contact for around 70% of the time & listen and ask more questions.
7. Before responding, pause a couple of seconds after someone speaks so people know they're being heard & paid attention to.
8. Use hand gestures & expressive body language (when appropriate).
9. Be more interesting by traveling, learning about other cultures, reading, & having strong yet open-minded opinions.
10. If possible, improve your story-telling, physical attractiveness (through proper diet & exercise), & other things you can control.
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