HOW I'VE HAD A LOT OF CASUAL S** WITH 8s-9s WITHOUT TRYING HARD (realistically)
- I share tips on how i've been succesful with women
1. PARTICIPATION
- life can be a participation sport
- participate in life: go to grocery shopping, parks, cafes
- discover healthy things you find enjoyable
- find community groups, or niche groups & interests (table tennis, billiards, sports, other)
- occasionlly put yourself in an environment where you socialize
2. LOSE WEIGHT & take care of your wellness (most people can control this unless you have a rare disease)
- diet is 80% of fat loss
- exercise is 20% of fat loss
- create a system for BOTH and become ROUGHLY right
- good routines come from Tim Ferriss' 4-hour body. *Be careful with supplements, nutritionists will tell you that whole-food is always better than supplementation
- if you don't want to spend a long time researching, HIRE somebody on Fiverr for $7-$14 and you'll have a framework for diet & exercise
- manage your medical & wellness with professionals
3. Make GOOD friends (s** is a side effect of good experiences)
- find yourself enjoying life more with good people around you
4. Hygeine, respect, hydration, laughter, RECHARGE
- I'm not saying be OCD about hygeine, but take a shower at least 2-3x per week & use halfway decent products
- Be respectful, it's better for everybody including yourself
- hydrate: your skin & energy levels will thank you
- begin to enjoy & have a good joke.. even if you're laughing at your own jokes!
- RECHARGE: stay home, disconnect, sleep
5. REVERSE-UNO QUANTITY to find QUALITY *AFTER* you've gained EXPERIENCE
- REVERSE quantity pursuits & you'll find QUALITY
- DON'T fall for 'online thirst-traps' -- most will only be looking for false sense of security on social media
- Care LESS & have more options
- I want women who want me
6. Tips, strategies, conversation examples
ALL-WEATHER CONVERSATION HOLDING
- Where is she from?
- How old is she? (are you in school? did you get a chance to recharge this weekend?)
- What is she looking for? (identify with her reality) Example: 'So you're looking for love in the wrong places here at this bar? :) ' -- conversation segways
- Become versed in specific techniques (Holding conversations, foreplay, OM, massage)
- USE all 5-senses in order to bring you both into the present experience: sight, touch, smell, hearing, taste
- Go slow. Use commands. Use positive feedback. Appreciate your partner.
- DON'T forget the lube, use pillows
- TRY accessories (toys, massage, etc)
- After you've had fun, found multiple partners, and have tried new things -- look for & maintain healthy, giving relationship(s)
7. Exciting: the occasional YOLO *EVERYTHING out the window*
- clarity: be clear about what you want
- take risks: put yourself out there
- let loose & have fun (avoid cocaine, ecstasy, meth, etc.)
- BUCKET LIST: Examples include international, mile-high, 3-way, p*** stars
8. Keep an open-mind (learning, feedback, etc.) & lifestyle
- understand what you want long-term
- don't take things too seriously
- live in accordance to your HIGHEST values: love, appreciation, enjoyment, growth, giving, curiosity, playfulness, etc
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