My perfect woman
What am I looking for in a relationship?
It sounds like an answer I should already have, but I've not really asked myself this. I always figured I'd know when I know. It's worked out so far, but actually having different aspects to focus on would make the search a whole lot easier.
1. Kind
Someone who takes care of others. Someone who wants the best for others.
If she's going to be the mother of my kids kindness is a must have quality. It's a balance though. Too much is being a pushover and that's not kind, especially not to yourself.
2. Happy
No one's happy 100% of the time. Hell I'm the happiest person I know and I still have my downtime. But I want someone who's baseline is happy.
Depressed people are really hard work. I've not got the energy to have a relationship with that. Being a friend is hard enough. Happy people on the other hand give me energy. Being around them makes it easier to do more than I'd do myself.
3. Smart
Idiots are hard work. Smart people are a lot easier. Even when we don't agree knowing their logic makes dealing with them so much simpler.
I'm smart I enjoy debate's having a sparring partner would be fun. Talking about different topics and expanding our minds sound like someone I want to hang out with.
I also find the common 'talk about your problems ' suggestion isn't complet what it should be is 'talk to someone smarter about your problems ' those that aren't as smart will only suggest thing's you've already dismissed weeks ago. Someone smarter will show you a different way of viewing the problem and offer solutions you'd never have seen. That's why I want someone smart close by.
4. Adventurous
5. Calm
6. Honest/trustworthy
If they talk bad about others, especially 'friends' I'm not interested. If they treat friends like that chance's are they'll screw me over as well, not worth it.
If they speak up against the norm and say what they believe to be right that's a good sign, regardless if they're right or not.
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