My top core values
Today, I wanted to figure out what my top values are. I think it's good to know where I'm starting at so I can know where I want to end up at.
1. Hard-work
So, I've been that and I've experience hard work, carpentry work, cutting woods, having cuts and scars all up and down my arms, getting hit in the chest with nails, dropping heavy wood on my feet and between those two lives, I will always forever pick hard work. Like, yeah, it's nice laying in bed... for a minute then the self-loathing creeps in. A few cuts and bruises are nothing compared to that shit voice in my head.
2. Honesty
But apart from that, what I really liked about him under all that shit was his honesty. His ability to be brutally honest with other people and himself... to be himself, that's what I loved and wanted for myself.
It's also why I respect James Altucher and let's face it, James isn't as cool as Tucker (Sorry, James, should of partied harder, man) but James is so completely able to be honest about his life, show you all the low moments... it takes balls and that's what I want for my own life
3. Responsible Happiness
When I use to think about happiness, I think I was thinking about... a base-level happiness. I wasn't thinking about true happiness.
Like, basic happiness is eating pizza, getting drunk, fucking 20 different girls you don't really know on a deep level. Of course that shit is nice, but it fades. It's a band-aid on a gash that needs surgery.
And true happiness is eating steak, maybe drinking every once and awhile with your family and finding a badass woman you can connect with and make sweet love with
4. Being a man
And I think you can be masculine and still cry. I think some people think masculine and think that means not showing emotion, but to me that's bullshit and not in my definition of masculinity. Being able to cry (I mean, don't be a crybaby and whine all day and night), to do that and express your emotions takes strength, which is a core part of being a man. And a woman, I don't think these values are exclusive to men, but... whatever, I'm not gonna get too deep into it, I still have 6 ideas to go.
5. A strong woman partner
- Strength (physically and emotionally) being able to kick someone's ass is incredibly attractive to me
- Intelligent - can't just be hot and dumb, sorry LA ladies (I'm joking. Mostly)
- Hot - It feels a little shallow to me, but it is what it is. But you don't need fake tits, that would just be a bonus if you did have them
- Kind - Jesus, I can't believe I almost forgot this... but, yeah, be kind like Jesus and not like some woke asshole
- Don't be woke - Don't have pronouns in your bio, it's dumb.
And then the rest are bonuses, I don't think I need them, but they would be nice:
- Creative, an artist - Non-religious, although if you believe in God, I think I'd be ok with that
6. Being Creative
7. Experiencing all I can out of life
8. Being kind
9. Intelligence
10. Independence or sovereignty
Kinda been thinking lately, no one is ever really free. Freedom doesn't exist, the only freedom we really get is to choose the chains we will put around our necks.
(Damn, I'm so deep, I'm gonna get into poetry.)
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