Rebounding after a failure
I fail. And then I feel terrible. Here are ways to help me rebound.
1. Complain to someone you love
Get it out of your system. Sometimes I just need to vent and feel heard.
2. Go for a walk.
Walking it off helps me. I don't know why. But I feel better afterwards. Maybe it helps me blow off steam and get some distance.
3. Pivot
Move on quickly to something else. Something I do well.
4. Try to understand why
What contributed to the failure? Execution. Planning. Unclear direction or expectation. A bad day by someone else. Time. Did I try something I'm not good at? Was there a disconnect somewhere? Was it even my fault? But own the failure and its learnings.
5. Retrospective
Ok. Now what should I have done differently? Try to list out what I'll do differently next time. Again...Own the failure and it's lessons.
6. Ask someone for perspective
Maybe the perception of failure is incorrect. Maybe it was not as bad as I think. What did a friend or colleague observe? Others can give you a more complete picture.
7. Leave the pity party early
I think feeling down is natural after a loss or failure. And unrealistic to ignore feeling bad. But staying in a perpetual pity party is not going to help you. You gotta move on.
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