1. How Letting Go Sets Us Free.
Picture this: you’re knee-deep in a rushing river, hands pushing against the current. The water is relentless, moving downstream, indifferent to your struggle. The harder you push, the more resistance you meet. Exhaustion sets in, but the river? It just flows.
Reality works the same way — constant, unyielding, unmoved by our preferences or demands. It moves as it must. When we resist, it’s not reality that suffers; it’s us. We waste our energy fighting, hoping reality will somehow bend to our will. But reality never loses.
Every moment spent in resistance wraps us in illusions — fantasies of control, stories of how things “should” be. But in truth, we’re just clutching at shadows, tangled in a prison of our own making. Round and round we go, looping through the same stories, trying to find happiness in a mirage that never fulfills.
Here’s the paradox: reality, stubborn as it is, is always kinder to us than we are to ourselves. Why? Because reality holds no lies, no stories to ensnare us, no illusions to deceive us. A truth, however stark, stands gentle in its honesty. It doesn’t twist or manipulate; it just offers freedom. Illusions, on the other hand, promise comfort but deliver only chains, keeping us spinning in circles, desperate for escape.
Reality asks us only one thing: surrender. Stop resisting. When we finally let go, it isn’t defeat — it’s liberation. We discover that truth doesn’t imprison us; it frees us from the weight of illusions we’ve carried far too long. It releases us from the need to control, to reshape, to “win.” There’s a peace in living harmoniously with what is, a peace that fantasy could never provide.
So why do we fight it so hard? Because accepting reality means releasing the identities we’ve built on resistance. It means letting go of the stories that defined us. It demands we trust that this moment, as it is, is enough. That it’s kinder and more freeing than any fantasy we could dream up.
If we could grasp this — that truth is gentler than fiction, that reality offers freedom while illusions only ensnare — maybe we’d finally find the courage to rest in what is. Maybe we’d stop the struggle and see that reality, unwavering and unyielding, has always been the friend we didn’t know we needed.
So, here’s the choice: will you keep fighting the river, or let it carry you somewhere real? Somewhere you’ve never been, but maybe — just maybe —where you’ve always belonged.
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Please forgive me.
Thank you.
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