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Things You Can't Control, So Don't Let Them F* You Up

Feeling a bit out of whack, and a bit "out of control" with things going on around me. Nothing terrible, just discomforting today. Or the muscle relaxant and anti-inflammatories I just started up again with for my sore back.

    1. Other People

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    You can't control them, only the way you respond to them.

    2. The Weather

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    Have an umbrella and/or raincoat handy, dress warm when it is cold, listen for weather warnings and assume some degree of accuracy. And don't be playing golf in a lightning storm. Unless you're using a 1 iron, because not even G*d can hit a 1 iron...

    3. Traffic

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    Re-learning this lesson with the sinkhole repairs going on along my way to work. And, the other way out of the valley we live in, from yesterday - https://dailyvoice.com/new-jersey/ridgefieldpark/tanker-hauling-7k-gallons-of-septic-waste-overturns-in-west-milford/. I'd say to just breathe... but that's not good advice if you're behind that truck.

    4. Buttons

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    Especially the left hand cuff button. Seems like half my time dressing is getting that one to go through (my watch is on my left hand). And broken buttons when you have to do upstairs to get another shirt for work.

    5. Doctors

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    Too many have selective hearing / interpretation. They know what's the matter before you've finished describing the symptoms. Nurses get it, and get it right much more often.

    6. Politics

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    Yeah, you can "get involved" but it's like drinking water from a 5 foot septic pipe. Not for everybody.

    7. More?

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    Probably, but these cover the waterfront (in my addled brain) for now.

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roccodesta @roccodesta
Hope things get better soon. Have you looked in to Stoicism Ray? You should be able to find some quote's that will help you to deal with things outside of your control.
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RayInNJ @RayInNJ
Things aren't terrible... just could be better (work, for sure). Have read a bit about Stoicism - makes sense, will dig into it some more.
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