Ways to make the holidays even more special

Instead of everyone giving each other gifts, have everyone draw names and agree to give that person a gift throughout the year. This way, the holidays are just the beginning of the gift giving, and it becomes more about the thoughtfulness and less about the monetary value.

Have everyone in the family randomly pick a day, starting from December 13th until Christmas Eve. On their day, they get to pick what the family does, whether it's going out for ice cream or making gingerbread houses. This puts the power in the hands of the kids and makes the holidays more about family fun.

Instead of having just one big family gathering on Christmas or Thanksgiving, have several smaller gatherings throughout the year. This allows for more family bonding time and eliminates the stress that comes with having to plan one big event.

Every year, start a new holiday tradition. It can be something as simple as making a gingerbread house or going caroling. This will add some excitement to the holidays and make each year more memorable.

One year, instead of exchanging gifts, have everyone donate to a charity of their choice. This will teach the importance of giving back and will make the holidays more about giving than receiving.