Ways To -Not- Impress Women
Another ongoing discussion topic for talks with the son.
1. Bragging
Constantly talking about your achievements, money, or possessions can come off as arrogant rather than impressive.
2. Being overly controlling or possessive
Trying to dictate someone’s actions or constantly seeking to monitor their behavior shows a lack of trust and can be a major red flag.
3. Not listening
Talking over her, ignoring her opinions, or dismissing her thoughts in a conversation shows that you aren’t interested in what she has to say.
4. Trying too hard to be “cool”
Whether it's name-dropping, acting tough, or pretending to be someone you're not, fakeness is usually off-putting.
5. Disrespecting others
How you treat people around you — like waitstaff, strangers, or anyone in your environment — is a huge indicator of character. Rudeness is rarely impressive.How you treat people around you — like waitstaff, strangers, or anyone in your environment — is a huge indicator of character. Rudeness is rarely impressive.
6. Making everything about physical appearance
If your compliments are overly focused on looks rather than personality, intellect, or character, it can feel shallow and insincere.
7. Over-aggressiveness
Being overly pushy, whether in conversation or action, can come off as disrespectful and overwhelming.
8. Being dismissive of her interests or values
Belittling or mocking the things she cares about won't win any points and will only highlight a lack of compatibility.
9. Lack of ambition or drive
While bragging about achievements isn't attractive, having no clear direction or goals can also be seen as unappealing.
10. Talking about exes or past relationships too much
It makes you seem hung up on the past rather than focused on the preset.
Impressing someone usually comes down to being genuine, respectful, and showing a sincere interest in who they are.
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