What activities can you do for your partner consistently?
1. Say "I love you" every time you leave the house
Give them a hug and a kiss.
2. A nice hug
Not a quick one.
3. Cook for them
Just because. Or, their favorite meal.
4. Pick up or clean after them
Without lecturing them or expecting something in return.
5. Do their laundry
If they are pressed for time.
6. Write them nice texts
Just because. Out of the blue.
7. Put your phone down
When they are speaking. Pay attention and listen.
8. Be positive
Negativity drains other people.
9. Ask for their help
If you are struggling with something, ask for them to listen, or for their help.
10. Don't keep score
If the family needs to operate at 100 to be successful, there will be times when your partner is an 80 and you are a 20. Other times, you will be pulling 50/50. Don't keep score. Pick up the slack when they need your help. If they aren't willing to help you, pick another partner!
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