When I get to that amount, I will be completely relaxed...
This is not true. No matter how much money you have (after reaching your minimum requirement), those thoughts will stay with you.
1. Why it's not true?
-Survival instinct: will I be able to feed my family, provide them with a roof over their heads...
-Preservation instinct: you don't want to lose your hard-earned money.
2. The solution?
As is often the case, it comes from the inside out, through your intentional thinking.
3. Understand what "enough" means to you.
Missing the 'now' to accumulate more of what you don't really need may not be the best idea.
4. Money can't be the only measure of your success.
Broaden your scope. Are you rich in relationships, love, health, time, and learning?
5. Don't wait for that magic moment. It does not exist.
Instead, work now with intention on your relationship with money.