!0 Areas of my life I have to recognise I am accountable for
Inspired by the opening chapters of the Gary Vaynerchuk book "Twelve and a half"
1. I am responsible for my Family's current state of Financial Instability
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- reduce expenses stop the unnecessary subscription that are not fundamental to my values
Actually start saving
Sell the stuff we don't need this action might replicate Noah Kagan's 1 dollar rule it proves I can make money outside my conventional job
2. I am responsible for the feeling of isolation within my marriage
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Listen more, just shut my mouth and listen and if I am asked for my opinion then ask questions how does that make you feel,
Also do the things more that we share in common which are family events & eating good food
3. I am responsible for when my Children lash out and feel angry
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Listen more put my self in there shoes and let them find the solutions what do Iknow@ after all look how unaccountable I am as an adult
Use my gift of humour not to be to serious
4. I am responsible for the resentment I feel to my father
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Before blaming my Dad look at my own faults that have led to confrontation
Remind my self of the things that I am grateful for what he has done for me
5. I am responsible for why my team members at work have failed to perform
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Put my ego aside and identify the previous issues
Scope a plan that clearly scopes the processes and desired out comes of the projects
recognise kindness is not a weakness
6. I am responsible for why I have not developed a show for my local fringe
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Stop thinking I am not good enough or the idea is not good enough
I am waiting for perfection instead of going to the workshops and getting
Move into why I need to do it and take the action
7. I am responsible for why I no longer keep in close contact with my life long freinds
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Stop thinking its a two way street use the Jordan Harbinger techniques of texting three people every day
Be Jake Blues if it matters get the band back together make it happen
8. I am responsible for why some people think I am a boring
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Stop looking for validation instead be curious in my encounters , who gives a stuff about what I think , keep my boring opinions to my self.
Don't care what they think instead learn in and see the comedy in it
Stop making assumptions about what people think about me
9. I am responsible for my feelings of inadequacy
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Get out the gratitude journal and celebrate what I am grateful for
Write out my many achievements and then use these to disprove why I am not as useless
So when I make negative statements about myself I can immediately ask is that true?
10. I am responsible for why I am standing still and not progressing
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Start by posting 10 ideas and Note Pd every single day, don't use the waiter pad as well instead commit to digging the one well
Commit to small regular habits that move me forward
