Red Flags to look for with relationships/connections?

Trust your gut. If someone says one thing but their actions say something else, or if your intuition tells you something is off, trust it!

A positive relationship should be balanced. The other person should put as much into it as you do.

A relationship is give and take. If you're giving and they're taking, there's something wrong.

If they can't commit now, they never will.

You can't change someone. If you want to change someone, better to find someone else who you don't need to change. People don't change.

You don't always know someone is lying at the time. Sometimes it's in hindsight that you realise. But, if you find out someone has lied, it's not a good sign.

If you have any sort of niggle, listen to it. The niggle is your friend trying to tell you something.

You don't want to be second best in a relationship. You want to come first.

If you're doing all the chasing, ask yourself why. Some people love the chase but don't want to settle down.

If someone is unavailable emotionally or physically, you're probably on a hiding to nothing.